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Avoid badmouthing your child’s other parent after divorce

On Behalf of | Oct 17, 2024 | Divorce

Divorce is an emotional time that can lead to both adults making harsh statements about each other. As tempting as it might be, it’s crucial that you don’t speak negatively of your ex, especially around your children. 

Badmouthing your ex when the kids are around or in a way that could get back to the children can lead to negative effects for the children. Even if you and your ex don’t get along, the children are still part of both parents. That may cause them to internalize any comments they hear about either parent.

Pay attention to your actions, too

It might be possible to avoid saying negative things about your ex, but that’s not the only thing you need to be aware of. Certain actions may also cause issues. For example, imagine what your children may think if they hear you sigh or grumble when your ex is calling. 

Find suitable outlets for frustration

You’re likely going to encounter frustrating situations involving your ex. You need to find suitable ways to handle the irritation and anger. One suitable option for this is to have a trusted friend or family member who you can talk to. In some cases, it may be beneficial to have a counselor or another professional to speak to. 

It may behoove you to ensure the parenting plan is set based on what’s best for the children. Having specific and concise terms governing the parenting arrangement may reduce the stress of the situation. Working with someone familiar with these matters may be beneficial so you can ensure you get everything set properly.

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