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How to end a marriage with a narcissist

On Behalf of | May 23, 2023 | Divorce

Being in a marriage that is failing can leave you in a precarious state of mind. This is nowhere truer than when you are married to a narcissist. California divorce laws are the same for most couples no matter their circumstances. But when you are trying to liberate yourself from someone who is gaslighting you, the stakes can feel much higher.

Don’t let yourself be manipulated any longer

The first thing you need to do is come to terms with the fact that your partner is a narcissist. They may already have shown signs of this malignant trait even before you were married. But since then, they may have doubled down seriously. If this is the case, filing for divorce may be the best way to save your sanity.

Narcissists have many different ways of manipulating and controlling their partners. They may exhibit behavior that is calculated to win your concern and sympathy. They may then turn their back and ignore your needs or try to marginalize them. It may seem that they exist only to aggrandize themselves at your expense.

Get ready for a highly contentious divorce

Preparing yourself for a divorce from a narcissist in California will take some time. You must prepare yourself for all the tricks they can trot out. It will be even trickier if you have children. Be ready for their attempts to turn them and others against you.

The number one tactic of malignant narcissists is to portray themselves as the victim. You must prove that this is not the case. To do so, you will need to arm yourself with the facts. Keep control of your emotions as you solidly press your case.