Are verbal agreements enforceable during a divorce? If you and your former spouse have made verbal agreements or “pinky promises” over time or during the course of a marriage will they hold up in divorce court? We often hear these types of questions from clients: “He promised if we ever got a divorce I could keep the house.” “We agreed…
Divorce
July 4th Holidays Can Be Rough After a Divorce
We know July 4th holidays can be rough after a divorce. Holidays as a rule require some strategy development for those who are contemplating a divorce, separating or recently divorced. Holidays are a time we tend to draw close to friends and family. Children love the excitement around July 4th. It is mid-summer and July 4th is usually a day…
Avoiding a Long and Expensive Custody Battle
What are the best strategies for avoiding a long and expensive custody battle in your divorce? Obviously, if you were in a healthy relationship with your former spouse you would still be married. Child custody and parenting time issues are the source of many challenges in a North County or Carlsbad divorce. However, there are also proven strategies to help…
Going Back To Work After A Divorce
Going back to work after a divorce can seem like a daunting task. For a stay-at-home Mom or Dad the prospect of finding appropriate work after so many years of caring for the children is overwhelming. In some cases, the stay-at-home parent has a college education, used to work and had strong professional skills. In others, they supported their former…
You Don’t Want to make These Mistakes in Divorce Court
If you are considering or attempting to manage your own divorce you don’t want to make these mistakes in divorce court: Dressing too casually – it may not seem fair, but appearances absolutely matter to the court. All judges deserve our respect, and when a party walks into court in casual clothes it demonstrates a lack of respect for the…
What is Nesting in Child Custody and Parenting Time
What is nesting in child custody and parenting time agreements? Parents who go through a divorce are almost always deeply concerned about lessening the impact of divorce on a child. One recent idea you may have heard about is the concept of “nesting.” Generally speaking, “nesting” involves keeping the family home for the residence of the child(ren) while the parents…
Planning the Steps Prior to a Divorce Mediation
Are you discussing issues associated with the divorce and hitting an impasse? Have you considered mediation? Mediation is a confidential, private, cost-effective and timely alternative for resolving disagreements or disputes associated with a divorce. Planning the steps prior to a divorce mediation establishes the foundation for an effective and fruitful mediation. The first step is to create a list of…
Should You Accept Virtual Visitation as Part of Parenting Time?
Should you accept virtual visitation as part of parenting time? Virtual visitation is a recent development in California family law courts. More of our courts state-wide are ordering virtual visitation where there are alternatives. Should you as a parent be concerned? Obviously, there are cases where virtual visitation is a good thing. Those who are in the military and deployed…
Valuation of a Medical Practice in a Divorce
How do you establish the valuation of a medical practice in a divorce in North County or North County San Diego? What is the difference between the portion of the practice which might be community property and that which is a separate asset? Usually, the value of a business is generally established by dividing it’s present income stream or benefits…
Things to Think About When Developing a Parenting Plan
What are some of the things to think about when developing a parenting plan during a divorce? The parenting plan is an important element of child custody. It is important to approach this task with your emotions set aside. The court is interested in two things: the best interests of each child and equal quality time with each parent in…